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Well the past week has been pure hell! My uncle stopped taking his meds because he didnt want to live with his pain anymore. He was on dyalysis for 11years. He passed away 2 days ago.. funeral is tomorrow. So my soo called girlfriend(were on break) has been there for me. She brings me up when im down. So she said she is going to call me at 1030. 1045 comes around, i get the feeling that somthing funny is going on. I drive by her house and some dude is leaven her house. I drive around the block tell her to get outside. She tells me its just a friend and they were watching a movie. Why wouldnt she just tell me? Yes I maybe be pissed but atleast tell me. I told her that I would wait for her to decide if she wants to be with me. I guess my love for her wasnt enough. All the months wasted.. Throw away... I feel soo hurt. I just dont know what to do. My uncles funeral is tomorrow and she is suppose to go. How am I suppose to act? oh god I dont know what to do... :(
 

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Well, honestly, dont make her a factor. Blood is thicker than water. It may be in your best interest to not take her with you.

Are you having a wake? I assume you havent been to a funeral before? Just do whatever makes you feel comfortable....Ive been to a few more funerals than i'd like to be, they were for guys with the same name as mine.

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Dude, screw her. What it sounds like to me, is you need a good ol fashion roadtrip. Pack up a weeks worth of stuff, drive to the mountains or something. Helps some people think...
 

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Wow, sorry to hear about all of this.
Deal with your family issues right now, be there for them.
The girl is not important.
Seems like im reading a lot of posts lately on other sites about girls screwing guys over as well.
Must be the time of year.
 

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we had a talk today... after the funeral.. i let her come because she is close to the family.. im glad i did. I think it made her realize what she would be giving up if we werent together.. So after funeral we went home and layed on the bed. She started kissing me, which normally doesnt happen. After we just layed and held eachother. I hope it doesnt go back to the crap like before
 

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You want her to stay with you because of your family?

Thats messed up. Remeber sooner or later your family isn't going to be there to "show" her what she is missing.

When I read your last post I thought to myself "this boy is way to far from being saved"
 

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I dont want her to stay because of that.. I just think that had make her realize how good she has it here. We are suppose to have a talk 2nite about everything. I hope everything turns out well. I think it should :)
 

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Good Luck.
 

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My parents are getting a divorce. Dad found out Friday. So there! :D

Maybe she doesn't want you, but there is someone out there that would give anything to have you, and you'll be better off. Hang in there!
 

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That sucks about your uncle, I worked as a dialysis tech for two years so I know what kind of hell dialysis patients go through.
as for the girl, just remember-
"no matter how hot or good in bed she is, somewhere, some guy is sick of her crap"
 
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