I know, I know, there are some women out there who are independent and don't need someone holding their hands 24/7. I'd like to meet one of you. My girlfriend, however is very needy. She gets pissed if I spend any time at all away from her, like to work on my car, hang out with some guys (I'm normally spending time with 3 girls, my girlfriend and her 2 best friends, so I need to see some of MY friends every now and then unless I want to spontaneously grow a vagina), or (gasp!) spend time with my family. But she can hang out with her friends all the live-long day and not see anything wrong with it. I'm sick of the double standard too. Anyway. I'm perfectly content to spend time alone. In fact, I need to spend a fairly significant time alone, or I get depressed because most people are aggravating and selfish. So when I want to spend time on my car, she gives me this injured attitude and makes cracks about my car being more important to me than she is. Of course, that's not true, but when she starts making those little jabs at me, it gets closer and closer to the truth. I work hard at most everything I do, including our relationship and she just complains that she NEVER sees me, when in reality I see her at least 5 days a week. When I point that out, she then says, sure but never for more than 2 hours at a time. I can't win. We've been dating for 3 years, and it's been pretty good up til this summer. She harps on me like a married woman. And then she gets all depressed about the future-"oh, you're going to get drunk in college and screw some slut" Which of course is not something you want to hear from your girlfriend. Especially when I've given no reason at all for her to even consider the possibility that I could be unfaithful. I don't even talk about what movie stars are hot around her! I don't really expect any answers, I just wanted to rant and vent. There's more, but I think I'm fine for now.