lol thanks for all the support. Sounds like I'm probably lucky to be in TX, not IL first off lol. I'm also lucky for the fact that my wife doesnt want to do anything but drink with her friends as much as possible. I am so thankful for that. She only gets into "mother mode" on sunday/monday. Really I think my son is what's keeping me from losing my mind any worse about all this. I have been putting up with lots of BS that has been getting progressively worse over the past 6 years. The first year or two was so great though!
My bird is in the driveway. The adjuster is coming out tomorrow so hopefully in a few weeks she will be good as new. It still drives, but the fender cuts on the tire when I hit bumps. I am hoping to get this bird painted Amber Fire Pearl Metallic like the other and maybe a cowl hood. I will probably have to pay extra for this, but it would be so worth it
Vasectomy......I dont think I could go through with it, lol. I look at it like this, if my wife gave me nothing else good at all, she did give me my son. Of course, reminding him that mommy still loves him and all that is really taking a toll on me because I just want to bad mouth her so bad!!

I can save that for adults though. Again, thanks for all the replies. It's nice to feel like I'm not so alone out here.